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 We all need love. I do not mean any kind of love or sex , not at all. I mean artistic value reflections that we create for ourselves. It could be as basic as a work of art, or as complicated as a whole civilization that represents our values. Do not get me wrong, I am not saying anything like "play God" or anything partially authoritarian even, just the opposite, I am saying that we are the ultimate authority behind and with our own perceptions, actions and realities. The first and last thing we need is understanding of ourselves then in reality to live successfully then. I remember one sentence my Dad used to say with a complete forthright passion and I understood what he meant, it was: "I do not play." What that meant in my mind was, there are certain things in life you have to be definite and realistic about, and there is a time for everything, especially being realistically working in life. I may smile, I may have fun sometimes, he did too, but, there are time...

 When I say that "We all love to win, but who loves to train ?", what do I mean? I mean happiness and enjoyment throughout the whole process is the destination, and sadness in any of it is never desired. Happiness does not mean total play or total work, it means enjoying the process as well as the result, that is it. Being a staunch and strict objectivist philosopher with a psychological emphasis on full epistemological understanding of what life is, I can say and mean this: It is as simple as what I said above, but if you want to read more into it, here goes. Reality is a rational step by step process, not something you cheat and take short cuts at which means that you enjoy the process as well as the result in every way that counts, and discard the unnecessary. Logically, I could end here, but I will explain myself more: The necessary is what gets results, the unnecessary is that which does not get good results. That simple, that succinct. Realistically, there should be...

 My first question about anything is: Is it important ? Is it important enough to be at the top of the "food chain of my life"? Everything else is second. Indeed, importance is the most powerful and needful core concept of life and existence. The importance of failing until you succeed is of the utmost magnitud e, especially when you have the "flaw" of persistence in your soul and spirit. Yes, if you really want to succeed genuinely perfectly, persistence through knowing what will not work is a most important reality. Perfection on the first try is never, ever mastery or even usually repeatable. A multiplicity of chances and tries is key to all genuine, repeatable and fully understood success. In fact, as I was coming up with the concept of this article, I edited it to perfection first in my mind for a few days before I wrote it (just like I do most of what I write, or seriously conceive). Also, genuine importance builds upon itself as a reality that needs to be ...